Think about what you, as a couple, will contribute to each other and your friends and family. Think about how your partner has influenced and changed your life, and how your life will progress going forward. These are the most important words you will say to your husband. If writing your own, take as much time as you can to write and edit and rewrite and understand your vows. What do you want to share with and pledge to your husband-to-be through your vows? Will you use traditional vows or write your own?
Spend time with your officiant to agree what you’d like said and read during the ceremony.Īnd, consider how the officiant words might compliment your vows. In what ways would you like to make your ceremony unique? Or, would you like yours to be a traditional ceremony?.
